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Banishing Barney
Fife Syndrome
by Jean Houston Shore, CSP, CPA,
MBA Copyright 2000
"He never said in a
single sentence what could be stretched to three or more paragraphs."
A friend recently told me that
she had finally figured out the perfect way to describe a person she worked
with - Barney Fife! I laughed out loud as I recalled the humorous
sheriffs deputy from the 1960s classic The Andy Griffith Show. What in
the world, I thought, would cause my friend to make such an unflattering
comparison?
To explain, she described one of
those episodes where Barney was put in charge. Youll remember that Barney
always took his responsibilities very seriously. On any day you could find
Barney giving a long dissertation about some nuance of the law or defining
detailed procedures about how the townspeople should handle an upcoming event.
Barney would raise his voice, assume an air of authority and then go on and on
about whatever was important to him, oblivious to the eyes glazing over in the
crowd.
This was my friends boss. He
never said in a single sentence what could be stretched to three or more
paragraphs. He never chose a simple approach over a more complex one. He made
things more complicated than they needed to be at least these were my
friends observations.
Now, did my friends boss
purposefully choose to make things difficult? Probably not. But it is a fact of
life that we often consider our own needs in a communication interaction, not
the needs of the other party to the communication. This course of action
results in Barney Fife Syndrome and BFS is deadly to proactive communication in
the workplace.
TIPS FOR BANISHING BARNEY
Here are some tips on how to
banish Barney Fife Syndrome from your workplace:
- First, learn to recognize the
symptoms. Glazed eyes, yawning, and general looks of boredom are clues that our
message is not getting through to our listeners with quite the same power and
impact that we intended.
- Second, remember the
whats-in-it-for-me question. We all want to know why we
should listen to someone who speaks to us. If we believe that the information
they have is vital to our success, we listen. If not, we tune out. If your
listeners tune out, you may not have adequately piqued their interest. Consider
your subject from their perspective and phrase your message in words that are
familiar to your hearers.
- Third, dont be verbose.
Be concise and succinct. That is to say, dont go on and on saying what
you have just said over and over. Dont be redundant. Dont repeat
yourself. Dont say things again and again. (See?)
- Fourth, include only the needed
level of detail. Barney pumped up his ego by spelling things out in
excruciating detail. You can communicate better by choosing your words and your
level of detail from the nonverbal clues given by the listener. Dont be
afraid to ask if the level of detail is too much or too little.
- Fifth, check for understanding
when giving instructions. To make sure your listeners got it, ask
them to describe in their own words what you have asked them to do.
- Finally, remember that Barney
Fife Syndrome doesnt appear only in face-to-face conversations. Scour
your written work (memos, reports, and e-mail) for signs of Fife. Watch out for
BFS in your voice mail messages too.
While Barneys intentions were
honorable, few townspeople took him seriously. To make our mark in our chosen
industries, we shouldnt emulate Barney Fifes one-way communication style. After
all, in todays complicated world, that might constitute a "Subsection
4-11."
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